Anakin managed to smoothly pass whatever fruit that was to Padme in a nice, clean controlled way in AotC. He didn't just launch it at her full-force!
(I don't think flinging something full-pelt at the face of your would-be lover is considered too romantic...)
And didn't look like he was sweating buckets to me!!
I'm not trying to promote the phantom saber thing in gameplay! Far from it - I think it would be an AWFUL idea!!
I'm using it as an example of over-analysing the force in regards to movie realism..
But anyway, I think this topic is being over-cooked now. Just wanted to make sure you understood my viewpoint...