Dath, if I could hug you, man, you know I'd do it. The first time we tried for a kid, my wife miscarried, so we know what you're going through. Give it time, be strong, and you will be parents some day. The best of luck to you both.
Meanwhile the Grim Reaper's doing over-time in my part of the world. My father died on 25th May, and my uncle (his brother) died a few weeks prior to that, both from cancer.
I just don't know - or care to know - what's going to happen next, at this point. Ever get the feeling the cards are stacked against you?
No matter what happens, now or in the future, just remember this:
"Every hour of every day is worth living, so live it well."
Cos you never know when your time's up, so make the best of the time you have, and never give in. Morgan's fight for life taught me that. Never give in, never hold back, and be what you want to be.
Bless you all.