Neutral: Seems like a good idea at the time...in the moment. In the long term somehow you suffer for it if it is a good and working relationship. On the other hand it may be for the best that you make a move to ultimately leave because the relationship is more just suffocating you instead of fulfilling. "Hind sight is always 20/20, but looking back it's still a bit fuzzy"
Dave Mustaine, Megadeth, song: Dread and the Fugitive Mind
Potato in the muffler.
Love me, I win.
Hate me, I win.
Ignore me, I've got exactly what I wanted.
Love me or hate me, you're still thinking of me either way.