The biggest struggle for me now is seeing all of her stuff. That's incredibly tough, as it all gives me memories. But I have to figure out what to do with it all. Her dad might come get some of it... and I'm sorting out the stuff I think should go to her mom... But all the stuff I bought or the stuff we got together has a lot of sentimental value, and I'm not sure I could see that stuff go to someone else. Especially if they were just to give it away, throw it away, or sell it off. Or just dump it in some dusty corner for storage forever...
Of course, if things ever change for her and she decides (or is forced for some reason...) to come back, I do want her to have access to her belongings.
At least all my memories are of all the good times right now and not the rough bits.
It's seems like we were together a lot longer than we were. Just shy of the 2-year mark. I guess the experience was just that intense.