Well, I feel the same way: I wanted a bit more personal, KotOR III-ish ending to the Revan/Exile arc. TOR doesn't interest me unless I can finagle the time and finance to play my first MMO... not likely, and neither does "Revan" with its TOR-prequel ending bull**** (second hand info of course). And now I feel like if there's more KotOR, it'll be after TOR timeline-wise. Not really an issue for me as it would be a good way to circumvent the lore from that game into something more (personally) playable.
It's kind of like all that juicy restored content in TSLRCM not being canon, none of the cool alternate KotOR II realities happened in the official timeline (which in no way detracts from the experience of it, but still sucks).