I couldn't find any information regarding exactly what causes Handmaiden to become angry. Guess I should've just asked first, oh well. And yeah, most of it is common knowledge, but I figured I'd explain in depth just in case a newbie (<-- irony) stumbles across it.
But I've never seen anyone mention that there is a 30 point threshold regarding influence. If you knew that, then I'd say to you: Stop hoarding the good information!
Also just wanted to say I'm running like 6 of your mods and am enjoying them immensely. They keep in line with Obsidian's game. That is, they are small changes that enhance the game without changing the feel of vanilla. Seriously, Good job!