I got some answers from her mom.
Basically: she felt things weren't working out for her here, and there was this guy in Mexico she had a history with. It must have gotten rekindled (online) at some point, so she decided to head back.
There was a bit more to it all... but that's the highly edited version of the pertinent facts.
I guess I understand it all better now. Though I'm still mad that she chose not to tell me the truth of her intentions. At least that way I could have had a cleaner break, and not spent a lot of time and effort (and money, too...) before she left. And not spent those lonely months expecting her to return.
I've lost pretty much all respect for her over this. NOW I really feel used.
Native XWA.Netter (Nutter?)
Last edited by edlib; 12-13-2012 at 08:59 PM.