well i told her right off the bat what i expect of her as a girlfriend if we get back together, that i will not compromise my goals and dreams for her, that she must accept me for who and how i am and the person that i have become. if she cant do that and just wants me to live to please her, i've got like 3 other girls on standby (didn't tell her that).
"Without strife, the victory has no meaning. Without strife, one does not advance. Without strife, there is only stagnation."