Yeah, this was the most awkward possible time for this engagement. Right after we talked about visiting! I heard from her last night and she still thinks this visit is happening. But I don't know if I want to see her now. Another friend of ours will be there, who I would like to see, and I don't want to offend her by telling her I don't actually want to get together with her now. DAMMIT.
I was pretty surprised by this, too - I think her boyfriend still has a couple of years of grad school to go, and he's doing that overseas.
We have now reached Three's Company-level awkward.