ask a girl out in 6th grade Jr.high were i live

Master Flick · 09-07-2006, 07:21 PM

okay there is this girl i reallyl ike name haley shenwarkand i want to ask her out to the next high school football game.i have to go to the game because i play the drums my teacher said i have to come to the game and sit in the percussion section and see and hear what they do so iwas thinking i'll bring a girl

the girl is the same relgion as i am
she used to go to the same church i had.
and she talks to me alot

but i am afraid if i ask her out and she says no that she will not talk to me anymore

someone give me advice

Commander Obi-Wan · 09-07-2006, 08:22 PM

I don't think it helps that you post her name on the internet. But, to the point, just ask her out, and if she says no. Then just live with it.

milo · 09-07-2006, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Commander Obi-Wan

I don't think it helps that you post her name on the internet. But, to the point, just ask her out, and if she says no. Then just live with it.

I wouldn't worry about her not talking to you anymore. The worst that could happen is you end up in the "friend zone".

Though it shouldn't be that hard to know if a girl likes you (unless you're totally smitten yourself--love is blind, in more ways than one).

p.s. Also, it might help if she's also a band geek.

Pho3nix · 09-08-2006, 07:07 AM

Why on earth would anyone post this here?

And yeah just ask her out.

Master Flick · 09-08-2006, 07:12 PM

to get advice and i asked and she said i'm not ready for a realtionship right now and she told me she just came off a bad one so i''l give her time and ask her again. i've been reject before and she was the only one to be nice about and were still friends

MachineCult · 09-09-2006, 04:09 PM

She came off a bad relationship? She's in the 6th grade FFS. My advice is just to forget about girls until you're at least 13, especially seeing as you have to look to a SWBF forum for help.

Master Flick · 09-09-2006, 06:02 PM

okay one i am very mature and 2 she is in 7th and dating is big here in the small town people have been dating since 4th grade. and i just wanted to see what advice i can get

milo · 09-09-2006, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Master Flick

okay one i am very mature

Teehee. You make me laugh flick.

Anyone who thinks of themselves as being very mature probably isn't.

MachineCult · 09-10-2006, 02:59 AM

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Originally Posted by milojmiles

Teehee. You make me laugh flick.

Anyone who thinks of themselves as being very mature probably isn't.

If he was mature then he wouldn't need dating advice.

My advice on dating an 11 year old is don't.

Darth Andrew · 09-10-2006, 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Master Flick

...dating is big here in the small town people have been dating since 4th grade.

Pff. Here, we start dating in pre-Preschool.

I'd honestly wait until 8th grade at least. IMO, people date too young these days.

TK-8252 · 09-10-2006, 01:20 AM

For god damn's sake, you just broke every rule of life you could possibly break in one single post.

First and foremost: DO NOT ASK FOR DATING ADVICE ON AN ONLINE STAR WARS DISCUSSION BOARD.

Second: Don't post her name online. I don't post my name on the internet and I wouldn't want anyone posting it for me.

Third: You're in sixth frickin' grade. Wait until you hit puberty at LEAST. I'm in eleventh grade and I haven't even been bothered to mess with any girls. I don't have a job, so I don't have money, so where the **** am I going to take her? See a movie? No. Go shopping? Nuh-uh. Out to dinner? Nope. I can wait and so can you. We have the rest of our lives to buy **** for women.

Fourth: This is an extention of my third point. Chances are that since you're only in sixth grade, you have about six MORE years to be stuck around her. That means that making a fool of yourself in front of her or ruining your friendship with her means six years of awkward situations. And TRUST me on THIS... girls have a better memory than guys, and they WILL bring up things about you from the past, no matter what you change about yourself.

In summary: don't rush into anything. There is PLENTY of time in the future to ask her to be with you.

Halo_92 · 09-10-2006, 11:14 PM

oh boy.

Samnmax221 · 09-10-2006, 11:27 PM

The most impressive thing you can do for her is to run her cat down with a street-sweeper.

**swphreak** · 09-11-2006, 07:43 AM

He asked, you gave, nothing happened, the end. But, yeah I agree, 6th grade is no time to worry about dating or getting serious..

I need a "running you down in the squad car" smilie.