Originally Posted by GTA:SWcity
@ DarthAve: That is pretty rough. Rather unsettling to find after a period of time.
If experience has shown me anything, we all change a lot from 18 to 25 years old. So until both partners of a relationship of a couple are at least about that old, I would not count on someone else to hold steady. Especially if it were a question of whether or not that person will become a snake in the grass and do something like this.
Not saying don't live (by all means, *do* live), just in terms of expectations and human behavior this is usually what happens.
In a year you'll look back on this and see him for what he really is. And laugh when he comes trying to crawl back to you b/c she found someone 'better' than him. Wish you well.
Mm thanks. Everyone is wishing me better, but I saw it coming in some ways. I would describe the entire situation it occurred under, but that would take a wall of text and the swamp doesn't want to deal with my crap. I'm happy anyways, and pursuing someone now that I really do feel I have things in common with, and genuinely enjoy being around more than Darrell... =] I'm a strong lady, I made it.
"A few times in my life I've had moments of absolute clarity. When for a few brief seconds, the silence drowns out the noise and I can feel rather than think, and things seem so sharp and the world seems so fresh. I can never make these moments last. I cling to them, but like everything, they fade. I've lived my life on these moments. They pull me back to the present and I realize that everything is exactly the way it was meant to be."