Ah, OK... So if I time it so that I restart when I new map's loaded but miss...

would it be acceptable to restart the server anyway so that I can join in?
The last thing I want to do is ruin everyone's enjoyment of the game just so I can play but then as you say, I'm providing the server...
On another point, I'd like to run the server all night so it can be used if people wish to. Thing is, the cooling I've used is damned noisy (especially the case fan). Money's tight right now (I'm under about 10K of debt right now...) but if I could get quieter cooling I could keep the PC on 24x7x365. Would it be out of order to ask for donations on my website to go towards that fund?