That's not the way it happened ED. I confess I said the following privately to The Source:
"Are you going to continue to behave a like a dickhead, because if so, I'd prefer you leave."
Then later when The Source logged on he quoted that publicly in the chatbox along with "what a piece of work".
So there is our dirty laundry out in the open. I apologize again for using such language. It was early Sunday morning and hadn't had my coffee and this was the first thing I was dealing with. Not a good excuse but it's my only one.
This came after a series of other escalating private messages. When I saw it publicly posted, that was enough to warrant a ban for harassment since it was clear I was not getting through.